If you're getting over being under the weather, it can be tempting to put the pedal to the metal on the road to recovery. But if you really want to feel better, proceed with caution. Here's how to bounce back without risking a relapse.

1. Rest up.
Resist staying up past prime time when you're on the mend, suggests Dr. Mark Anderson, a family physician in Southlake, Texas."An early bedtime is more effective than trying to catch up on sleep in the morning, because the deep sleep you get before 2 a.m. is worth twice as much as sleeping in," he says.

Even when you're awake, take it easy. You may feel well enough to go back to work, but that doesn't mean you're ready to go out on the town. Instead, stay in and read, catch up with a friend over the phone or watch a DVD. Still suffering from a stuffy nose? Soak in the tub. Not only is it relaxing, but the steam may act as a decongestant.

2. Eat right.
Though it's often easier to just grab something quick when you're trying to catch up on the things you missed while you were sick, eating well can help you get completely healthy and provide you with a much-needed energy boost. Follow these tips:

• Stay hydrated, which helps flush out any excess mucus from a cold or flu and replaces fluids lost as a result of nausea or diarrhea.
• Stick to easily digestible foods like rice, dry toast, saltines, bananas and apples if you're just starting to eat again after a gastrointestinal bug.

• Avoid dairy, since it thickens lingering mucus and can exacerbate nausea.

• Eat plenty of fresh fruits and veggies: Their antioxidants boost your immune system, which can help ward off new or secondary infections.

3. Work it out.
As long as you're no longer running a fever, says Anderson, you can start exercising again. In fact, not only will the heat your body generates during exercise help keep any leftover mucus moving, but the endorphins produced can speed your recovery.

That said, listen to your body and don't take on too much too soon."Scale back your workout," suggests Anderson."If you're used to running 3 miles a day, try walking on a treadmill for 30 minutes instead."

4. Keep it to yourself.
Did you know you're contagious for up to a week after coming down with a cold or the flu? Even if you're feeling better, continue to follow the habits that can help prevent illness from spreading:

• Keep a small bottle of antibacterial gel on hand and use it before touching your children.
• Wash your hands with soap and water for at least 15 seconds after using the bathroom, after blowing your nose, before eating, and before and after handling food.
• Have someone else cook (or order in) until you've been better for a few days. If that's not possible, wash your hands thoroughly before and after preparing food.
• Cough or sneeze into the crook of your elbow, not your hand.

Kiss your kids on the top of the head, not on the face, until you're feeling 100 percent well again.

When your kid is miserable with a stuffy nose, fever or stomachache, it's tempting to feed her what she wants (ice cream!) or let her skip dinner altogether. But research reveals that eating the right comfort foods can soothe her symptoms and strengthen her immune system. Even if your little one doesn't have much of an appetite, encourage her to eat; in combination with symptom- and age-appropriate OTC remedies, she'll feel better in no time. Here, the best foods for sick kids:

For a stuffy nose … feed them soup.
"The hot, steaming broth loosens mucus, so your child can breathe easier," says Amy Jamieson-Petonic, a registered dietician and the director of wellness coaching at Cleveland Clinic. For even more relief, serve up a bowl of chicken soup: Researchers from the University of Nebraska Medical Center found that this childhood staple may relieve cold symptoms by inhibiting inflammation-causing cells in the body."Plus, chicken soup has carrots, celery and onions," says Jamieson-Petonic."These veggies provide vitamins and minerals that boost the immune system."

For a fever … feed them calorie-rich fare.
Forget starving a fever! "You'll only deprive the body of the nutrients it needs to get well," says Jamieson-Petonic. A feverish child uses more energy, she adds, so they need to consume additional calories. If your kid doesn't feel like eating, try adding nutritional bulk to every bite he takes: Slip banana slices into a peanut butter sandwich, mix dry milk powder in mashed potatoes or mac 'n' cheese, and blend flaxseed into a fruit smoothie.

For a sore throat … feed them soft foods.
Does it hurt to swallow? Scrambled eggs, oatmeal, soup and yogurt can coat a painful throat while providing nutrition. Another soother for children above the age of one: honey. According to a recent study published in the Archives of Pediatrics; Adolescent Medicine, this sweet substance can also lessen nighttime coughing and improve sleep. So if your child can't stop hacking, swirl a spoonful into a mug of herbal tea or a glass of warm milk.

For a stomachache … feed them crackers.
"Bland foods stabilize digestion and gradually get the system up and running again," says Connie Evers, a registered dietician in Portland, Ore. Once the worst is over, she recommends moving on to more substantial fare, like bananas, rice, applesauce and toast. Also steer clear of colas: The caffeine content can make nausea even worse.

For any type of illness … feed them popsicles.
For sick kids, proper hydration is key."Sleeping for long periods of time -- as well as running a fever -- can lead to fluid loss," says Evers. To make sure your child sips often, place a water bottle on her bedside stand. Evers also suggests freezing 100-percent cranberry and orange juices into homemade popsicles; the treat serves up extra liquids along with a dose of vitamin C.

For recovery … feed them balanced meals.
Even if they ask for it, don't serve them their favorite fast-food meal or sugary dessert."Foods high in sugar or saturated fat can increase inflammation in the body," explains Jamieson-Petonic."That can make kids feel worse -- and even slow the healing process." Fill her plate with vitamin-rich produce, whole grains and lean proteins instead."These foods strengthen the immune system, which helps fight viruses," she says."It can also help lower the risk of complications, like bronchitis."

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It's cold and flu season, which means plenty of moms are facing that age-old parenting dilemma: Do I send my coughing, sniffly child to school? And if I make the wrong choice, will the school nurse call a few hours later asking me to take him back home?

Figuring out when to keep your child home from school and when he's well enough to go back isn't always easy, says Dr. Loraine Stern, associate clinical professor of pediatrics at UCLA School of Medicine in California.

“The truth is, you can't always tell how sick a child really is," says Stern. For instance, some kids may seem totally fine at breakfast but take a quick turn for the worse and end up very sick two hours later.

What to Do With a Flu
Of course, when it comes to such flu symptoms as high fever, vomiting and body aches, the answer is a no-brainer."If your child is running a fever, you should keep her home because she's not going to be able to sit at her desk and pay attention," says Stern. This applies to seasonal flu as well as H1N1 virus (swine flu), she adds.

What to Do With a Cold
When your child has run-of-the-mill cold symptoms like a runny nose and cough, deciding whether to send or keep him home isn't always cut and dry, says Stern."Let's face it, if you wait for children to have noses that are completely clear, they're never going to go to school," she says.

So, as long as your child doesn't have a fever and is acting normal, it's fine to send him to school with a minor cold. Even nasal discharge, as unpleasant as it may be, isn't reason enough to keep a child home.

“Young children often have this at the end of a cold, and it's perfectly normal and not contagious," says Stern."If the discharge goes on for seven to 10 days, it may be a sign of a sinus infection, but that's not something that's contagious either."

On the other hand, a cough that's bad enough to disturb other kids in the classroom is a good reason to keep a child home.

More Signs to Stay Home 
Some signs to stay home are more clear-cut. For example, keep your child home if she has a highly contagious infection such as strep throat or conjunctivitis, says Stern. With strep throat, kids need to be on antibiotics for 24 hours before they can return to school. But with conjunctivitis (pinkeye), kids need only be under treatment, and they can go back to class."That means the condition is getting better with medication but not necessarily cleared up yet," says Stern.

Since ear infections are not contagious, there's no reason to keep your child home when she has one, even if she's taking antibiotics."Yet the current thinking is that the majority of ear infections get better by themselves without antibiotics," notes Stern.

Quick Reference Guide
Here's Stern's cheat sheet on the do's and don'ts of keeping a sick child home.

Keep your children home if they:

• Have a fever.
• Are unable to concentrate on schoolwork due to symptoms.
• Have symptoms (such as diarrhea) that disrupt activities  or distract classmates (such as a hacking cough).

Send your children to school if they:

• Had a fever that has been gone for 24 hours.
• Are alert and able to pay attention in class.
• Don't require a teacher to provide extra care.

And if you do have a sick child at home, try to see the silver lining."Enjoy the time at home with him," says Stern."It's a chance to do the kinds of things you don't have a chance to do when everyone's so busy -- like curling up on the couch with your child in your lap and reading books together."

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Sore throat. Stuffy nose. Wheezing cough. When you’re sick with a cold or flu, all you want to do is crawl into bed and sleep for a week or two. But your pesky symptoms make it impossible to rest easy. When bedtime finally rolls around, you actually feel worse than you did during the day.

“When you have a cold or the flu, congestion worsens at night,” says Dr. Neil Schachter, medical director of the respiratory care department of the Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York City, and author of The Good Doctor’s Guide to Cold and Flu. “When you lie down, the airways are more likely to become clogged with mucus.”

Here’s how to stop tossing and turning, and get a restorative night’s sleep.

1. Have a tea party. Before you go to bed, sip a mug of decaffeinated black tea. The antioxidant-rich beverage contains theobromine, which is a natural cough suppressant, and the heat thins mucus. Add lemon to help cut through congestion and honey to soothe the throat.

2. Rinse away congestion. Wash away gunk that’s interfering with your breathing by doing regular nasal rinses. Nasal rinse kits can be found at most drugstores and are easy and painless to use. Essentially, you are rinsing your nasal cavity with a mixture of distilled water and sodium. This helps to clear passages and keep them moist. If you’re uncomfortable with a nose rinse, try a saline nasal spray instead. This also helps to flush out the nose, which makes breathing easier, says Dr. Schachter.

3. Pamper a sore throat. “The throat feels sore during an infection because the mucus that is lining the throat is filled with inflammatory compounds,” says Dr. Schachter. Add half a teaspoon table salt to warm water, gargle for 10 seconds and spit out. Removing the virus-laden mucus relieves both sore throat and coughing.

4. Darken your bedroom. It’s important to create a healthy environment that promotes quality sleep. Since incoming light tells the brain to wake up, try to block morning light from reaching your eyes. You can accomplish this by hanging dark curtains or by wearing a comfortable sleep mask that covers your eyes. Also, if you have a brightly illuminated alarm clock, make sure it’s not facing you during the night.

5. Keep it cool. In your bedroom, set the thermostat low. When your body temperature drops, your brain goes into sleep mode. The National Sleep Foundation recommends between 54°F and 75°F.

6. Take a hot shower. Before bed, muster the strength to take a hot shower. When you get out, the drop in body temperature helps prepare your brain for sleep. Bonus: Steam loosens congestion and hydrates your nasal and throat passages.

7. Slip on socks. Put on a pair of cozy socks before you get into bed. According to a Swiss study, warming your feet helps your body relax and puts you in the snooze zone.

8. Silence symptoms. Some common symptoms, such as a cough and congestion, can make restful sleep a real challenge when you're sick. Over-the-counter medications can help alleviate these uncomfortable obstacles to a good night’s sleep. 

9. Elevate your head. When you’re sick, sleep with your head elevated. Prop yourself up with a few extra pillows or the plump cushions from your sofa. Sleeping elevated helps ease sinus pressure and makes breathing less difficult.

10. Quiet your mind. Even when you’re exhausted and not feeling well, sometimes you can have a mental block that prevents you from falling asleep. To get into the right frame of mind, try one of these calming pursuits: meditate, jot your thoughts into a journal, listen to soothing music or read your favorite book. 

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Help make your little one’s sick day a little better with some creative touches you can both feel good about.

Feed a Cold

Sick kids don’t always want to eat, but it’s important to make sure they get enough nutrients. Make a game of it by playing restaurant: Give your child a menu of healthy choices, write his “order” down on a notepad, then deliver the meal on a tray. Keep it fun with foods like “orange smiles” (oranges sliced into smiles); toast cut into fun shapes with cookie cutters; or chicken soup served in a thermos. To soothe a sore throat, Amy Clark, founder of MomAdvice.com, suggests fruit-juice popsicles or a fruit smoothie (a mix of ice, yogurt and fruit in a blender). For a fun, fizzy drink, mix a colorful electrolyte juice with ginger ale and serve in a fancy glass -- don’t forget the silly straw!

Make a Sick Day Special

Keep a few special items on hand that you only pull out for sick days. Clark suggests hitting a thrift store to buy a small, inexpensive suitcase. Decorate it with brightly colored buttons and bows, and fill it with some special items: pajamas with your kid’s favorite cartoon character on them, a mug with a family photo on it, and a few toys, games, coloring books, puzzles and art supplies reserved just for sick days.

Try a Spoonful of Sugar

Get little ones to take their medicine by mixing liquids or crushed pills with something sweet, like a smoothie, pudding, applesauce or fruit-flavored yogurt. (Just be sure to ask your pediatrician or pharmacist if it’s OK first, and make sure your child takes the entire dose.) You can also make liquid meds fun by using a medicine dropper instead of a spoon -- let your child squirt it into his own mouth one drop at a time. 

Soothe Aches and Pains

For a fever, congestion, or aches and pains associated with the flu, a little TLC can go a long way. Try massaging your little one’s aching neck and shoulders. Clark also suggests filling a tube sock with rice and freezing it to use as a cold pack. Help to clear a stuffy head by enclosing yourselves in the bathroom with a steamy shower: Clark recommends letting your child wear his bathing suit for a “day on a tropical island,” and for a special touch, adding bubbles and tub toys.

Create a Comfort Zone

Kids need to get a lot of quiet rest when they’re sick. Create a space where they’ll actually want to relax by pitching a tent in the living room and filling it with a sleeping bag, pillows and a flashlight, as well as some favorite books, stuffed animals and quiet activities like puzzles and board games.

Play Doctor

Keep a toy doctor’s kit on hand, and with your kid, practice looking into each other’s ears, giving pretend shots and listening to each other’s coughs. Be the nurse and come in to check on your “patient” often. Fluff the pillows, take his temperature and listen to his heartbeat.

Go Old-school

Skip the TV, video games and movies, and instead take advantage of some quality quiet time with your child. Play a few rounds of tic-tac-toe, I Spy, Go Fish or charades. Make up stories, cut out paper dolls, sort through old photographs, or pull out some old board games, puzzles and coloring books.

Reach out

When you’re away from your sick kid, Clark suggests keeping in touch by using a baby monitor -- many of the newer models offer two-way communications. You can also give your child a bell, a walkie-talkie or a cell phone to get your attention when you’re needed.

Turn the Lights out

Help your kid get into “rest mode” by pulling down the shades, turning off the lights and playing some quiet activities together in bed. Carole Kranowitz and Joye Newman, authors of Growing an In-Sync Child: Simple, Fun Activities to Help Every Child Develop, Learn and Grow suggest a game of ceiling flashlight tag or shadow puppets on the wall. Stick some glow-in-the-dark stars on your child’s ceiling and make wishes. Tell ghost stories (not too scary -- you want your kid to fall asleep!). Or just lie down, cuddle up and take a nap together.

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